Life : My 10 favorite quotes, yet.
Getting older makes you think.
Getting older makes you think.
I am about to be 25 years old and I love quotes. So, I asked myself :
What are the quotes that really changed me ?
You know : the one that makes you think; the one that changes the way you see the world. So here they are : 10 quotes for 10 values that I try to reach every day in order to become a better human being. And of course, I still have a lot of work on that.
1. Humility
After all, we only have 5 senses (and a brain) to be connected to the world. Itâs certainly not enough to be aware of everything happening around us. Even if we make huge progresses on that path.(You have to see this video)
We probably feel 10% of what the world has to offer.
Thatâs why for me, humility itâs the most important value of ALL.
We donât know everything about the world ; About our friends ; About that upset stranger we just crossed down the street; Sometimes even about our work. And itâs totally OK !
We often forget to let it go and keep moving forward. Life is just too short too be trapped by our ego.
âThe problem with the world is that the intelligent people are full of doubt, while the stupid one are full of confidence.ââââCharles Bukowski
2. Be Yourself & Shine
Oscar Wild famously said : âBe yourself, everyone else is taken.â
I feel that too much people are using âbe yourselfâ, as a an excuse for they worst behaviors. Actually, I believe itâs more an invitation to be the best version of ourself.
Shining ? Yes. We are too often focused on looking for someoneâââor a âspecial oneââââthat is going to change our life and make us a better person.
But maybe, we could just start by being the light we are permanently looking for.
By being our true self we attract the right people. Something like : âYour vibe, attracts your tribe.â.
3. Listening
As François Truffaut once said : âLife has far more imagination than we have.â
Sometimes our brain and ego make plans and we stop listening to what life actually wants to tell us.
I believe we have so much to learn from the people we meet, and the experience we make.
Itâs a kind of my life motto.
Thatâs why I believe serendipity is such an important thing. Even if itâs hardâââsometimesâââto know where we should allow our attention on.
4. Inner Honesty
This one is powerful because it mixes : humility, being yourself, and listening.
Honesty starts with being in peace with ourself. Itâs something very intimate, but so important to face life properly.
I read an interesting difference between authenticity and transparency : âIt is important to make distinction between being transparent and being clear. As I have learned, more exposure to information doesnât equate with true understandingââââJohn Maeda
Itâs ok to have our secret garden (and quite healthy ), we just need to be clear with ourself, and the people that surround us.
For work and professional life, honesty is close to self awareness, which is also very important. Right Gary ?
5. Be the change
This is a stronger version of the famous Gandhiâs quotation : âBe the change your wanât to see in the world.â
Probably the most important quote of the selection. Very few things change by our opinion, but so much can be changed by our simple example. This is where credibility stands.
This is why parents, teachers, brothers, sisters, or any others person in contact with kids, have such an important role. Because as we grow, we tend to reproduce what wâve seen as a kid. So letâs start to be the generation that shows the right way.
How can we expect to see the changes that we are not able to make ourselves ?
6. Life is an echo ?
I am not a scientist, and I am not pretending to be one, but I believe things work that way.
I believe everything works on a quantum level : somewhere, every action leads to a reaction. Like the âButterfly Effectâ.
The same way I believe we, human beings, are all connected. As the concept of noosphere developed by Pierre Teilhard de Chardin, explain it.
And itâs actually a good news : if everything is contagious, it means we are all responsible for the world.
We can change it by our simple thoughts or actions.
7. Be the movement
First, this quote made me think a lot. Like a lot. But after a while, I agreed with it. We need to be in the movement. Can we argue about the wind ? No, it just exists.
Life is movement. Itâs like riding a bicycle if you stop too long, you just fall. This guy words :
âLife is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving on.ââââA. Einstein.
Whatever the direction we take, we need to choose one. The worst thing that could happen is being static. We always learn from doing something. If itâs positive itâs success, if itâs negative itâs experience.
It doesnât mean to forget where we come from :
âIf our friend, the flag, has taught me anything, itâs to go where the wind takes you. As long as you remain firmly attached to a rigid pole.ââââSheldon Cooper, The Big Bang Theory
8. Facing fears
Thatâs maybe the most important quote for my daily life. If I donât have the opportunity to do something SCARY everyday, I try at least to do something NEW. Which is close : arenât we afraid of the unknown ?
So I try to do new things as often as possible. Even the tiny ones : changing the itinerary on my way back home to discover new streets, for exemple.
For sure, we canât face our biggest fears straight away, but surely step by step, we are able to earn some confidence on this path. This amazing TED explains why.
Start small, go big
They say : âGo out of your comfort zoneâ. But maybe itâs more about : extending our comfort zone ?
9. Courage
Yeah, sorry⊠âthe only way itâs throughâ. End of the story.
Sometimes itâs tempting to not face a problem immediately. But the truth is : the more we wait, the more it becomes complicated and tense.
We probably have all experienced that. By fixing things early we keep them manageable.
âNothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.ââââPema Chodron.
10. Being nice
Whatever happens, even if itâs hard sometimes : Be nice to people. Itâs our commun, and only, duty.
What does it mean to me ? Something like : âDonât do to others what you donât want others do to you.ââââThe golden rule.
Or simply, my favorite :
âBe the person your dog thinks you are.ââââUnknown
If you are not in the position you wished to be, be patient, and do not envy people who are. Use this as a positive inspiration.
If you are where you consider â the topâ, donât be a douchebag, remember where you come from. Be grateful.
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And You ? What are your favorite quotes about life & how you see the world ? Do you have some kind of life motto ? I would love to hear about that.
P.S: If you are wondering how the quotes have been made, I used spokenly (doesnât work anymore); Quotescover ; Canva and Pablo. Itâs really easy to make your own.
They are all available here. Of course, feel free to use them.
Thanks for reading.
I am David Wise, I live in Paris and I like to write about life, technologies & startups. This article was also posted on my Medium